Have you ever had a conversation with someone and then days, even weeks, later realized that what they had said was meant in a much more malicious way than you originally took it? It's a wierd feeling, knowing that someone got away with being hurtful. You're torn between being glad that it didn't turn into something ugly and wishing that you could call that person up and tell them that you know how mean they were actually being. But in the end you are just glad. And you try not to recall that conversation every time you think of that person.