You know you have been too accomodating to someone when they don't hesitate to suggest that you plan your major surgery at a time when visiting you won't interfere with their other plans.
You know you love that person very much when you figure you probably would have done so anyway.
You know you are going to get an ulcer when you only comment vaguely about the subject rather than ranting like you should.
Whatever. We now return you to the regularly scheduled up-beat, cheerful Soleil already in progress.